Don’t Get a Psychic Reading Until You Read This

How to get the best and most accurate psychic reading

Brendon and I have been giving psychic readings (we prefer to call them Intuitive Readings) for more than 15 collective years — and have been receiving them for far longer than that. I specialized in tarot reading and palm reading. Brendon specialized in mediumship, channeling and platform readings (group readings). These readings were done around the world: Cuba, USA, Australia, UK, Brazil, and not to mention the clients we serve remotely over the phone or online internationally.

It doesn’t matter who we are reading for or what their cultural background is, we have noticed that people who receive the best, most helpful answers follow the steps below.

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Understand Your Role in a Psychic Reading

A psychic reading is not a one-way relationship. Although you’ll receive messages from the reader, your work starts from the moment you book the session. It’s more of an inner work. All of the answers to your questions are either stored in your energy field or provided by your spirit guides (if they feel you’re ready to receive them).

A really good professional will be able to tune in to your energy from the moment you booked or right before the session. We often can feel what our clients are going through just by reading their client intake form at booking. So, you’ll want to make sure that you’re feeling clear and calm so that the reader can access those answers first. Otherwise, they might pick up your surface emotions before they get to the answers to your questions.

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You don’t want to waste any precious minutes of your reading just because you’re in a bad mood from someone who cut you off on the road! As the wise rapper, Ice Cube, once said, “You better check yo self before you wreck yo self.”

Tips and tricks to prepare for your psychic reading

  • It’s best to be rested. If you’re feeling wired or tired, it can be more difficult for your energy field to reveal the answers.
  • Check any strong emotions at the door. Extreme negative or positive emotions can color your reading. Doing a short breathing exercise or simple meditation before the reading will allow you to relax.
  • Avoid heavy meals, alcohol, caffeine or any recreational drugs right before your reading. These can make it more difficult for you to connect with your heart or just make you plain tired.
  • Spend a short time by yourself before the reading (15-20 minutes is enough). This will allow you to regroup from your day and disconnect from anyone else’s aura with whom you were in touch with.
  • Refrain from surfing the web at least 15-20 minutes before the reading. The blue light from electronic devices is stimulating and keeps your energy in your mind. It’s best to drop your energy down into your heart so that your psychic reading can get to the heart of your questions!

Set an Intention

Out of all the tips on this list, this is the most important. Your intention is everything! Get very clear on WHY you want the reading. Here are some questions to consider when setting your intention:

  • What do you want to get out of the reading?
  • How do you want to feel after the session?
  • Do you want healing or closure around something?
  • Has something been bugging you that you need peace around?
  • Are you struggling to make a decision between multiple choices?
  • Do you need to understand why something happened in your life or keeps happening?
  • If it’s the New Year or your birthday, are you wanting to know how the next 12 months will be?
  • Are you wanting to get to know who your guides are or what your spiritual and psychic gifts are?

With a clear intention, your guides will be able to lead the psychic to the correct information. This will focus your energy in a very powerful way that the intuitive will be able to tap into.

Ask the Right Questions

The power of your questions can’t be overstated. Anytime you ask a question, the universe immediately searches for solutions. That’s why the clearer your questions, the clearer the answers you’ll receive.

This requires connecting with yourself and getting honest about what it is you’re truly looking for. At first, you might think that you’re wanting to know if you and your ex-lover will ever get back together; however, maybe upon quiet reflection, you realize you’re really just wanting to know when you’ll stop yearning and how to stop giving your power away when you enter relationships. Or maybe you think you’re wanting to know when you’ll get out of debt, but deep down you mainly want to know to know how to have a better relationship with money. This requires getting real with yourself.

Also, don’t ask vague questions. Be mindful of asking specific, clear question. Here are some examples:

Examples of Vague Questions to Ask a Psychic:

Can you give me a general reading for my future?

What does my love life look like in the future?

Am I on the right path?

Examples of Clear Questions to Ask a Psychic:

Is [insert name here] my soul mate or twin flame?

Why am I having issues with my boss and how can I fix them?

Should I move to Japan or stay in New York City?

Make the Psychic Reading About You Only

We live in a free will universe and no one has the right to impose themselves on someone else without getting their consent. Therefore, it’s a big spiritual no-no to ask a psychic to tap into someone else’s energy field and do a reading on their behalf.

Doing so means you have violated their soul and energetic boundaries which creates entanglement between you and that person (not to mention clouding up your own aura by doing something dishonest). No matter how badly you want the answers to what your ex-boyfriend is thinking or what will happen to him in the future, don’t do it. You’ll only create more karmic problems for yourself in the future.

Keep your nose clean.

Also, if a psychic ever offers or agrees to do a reading on behalf of someone else without getting their permission, run for the hills. They are unsavory and you DO NOT want to work with someone with ethics like that.

Ask About Something You Actually Care About

Psychics read energy. The things you care about show up strongly in your energy field because they carry the momentum of your emotions, thoughts, karma, memories and even past lives. When something is aligned with your soul’s purpose — or would completely derail you — your spirit guides will also have a strong “say” into what you’re asking about. Hence, you’ll get definitive, meaningful answers.

However, if you ask about things you don’t really care about just for fun (i.e., Will my friend call me in the next 5 minutes?  What am I thinking about right now?), you’ll get irrelevant answers. Spirit helps you when you care about what you’re doing.

Don’t Test the Psychic

Some skeptics like to get psychic readings for reasons I’ll never fully understand. Maybe they’re trying to have a “gotcha” moment to boost their egos. So, they’ll test the psychic by purposely misleading them with fake responses or having a smug attitude. In those cases, the recipient will never get a good reading from the psychic because their attitude shuts their entire energy down from the psychic.

This is not a game for us; this is our life and we take our work seriously. I’ve never met a psychic reader who didn’t care about their work, even if they were just a beginner with amateur skills. Your customers don’t go to your work and test your experience. Don’t do that to someone else. It’s rude and disrespectful. #DontBeThatPerson

With these points in mind, you’ll be 100% ready for your next psychic reading!

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Christine is an intuitive empath, clairsentient, indigo adult, Reiki Master, EMF Balancing Technique® Practitioner and all-around free spirit. She has traveled to nearly 35 countries exploring different ways of life and developing her spirituality. She specializes in giving energy healing sessions and intuitive readings for people and pets.


Christine is an intuitive empath, clairsentient, indigo adult, Reiki Master, EMF Balancing Technique® Practitioner and all-around free spirit. She has traveled to nearly 35 countries exploring different ways of life and developing her spirituality. She specializes in giving energy healing sessions and intuitive readings for people and pets.